View Full Version : Older men

01-07-2012, 06:26 PM
This may not be the forum for this - not sure how to bring it up and how it will sound? If it is hurtful or triggering to anyone please let me know - I want to try and divorce myself from the question as much as I can and make it an "in general" query.
Has anyone found that older men can become obssessed with watching porn, seem to have a desire to act out a lot of that sort of sex in real life, want you to "turn on" by masturbating in front of them, watching porn too, never seem to believe that there are many times when you "aren't in the mood", etc. want to talk "dirty" and derogatorary towards you etc?

01-07-2012, 06:33 PM
what do you consider an older man?

My husband is in his early fifties, we have been married thirty-one years and his basic sexual desires have not changed.

I would find it concerning if there was a sudden major shift in his norm to something totally out of the norm for him and would consider that it could be a medical or psychological poblem causing the sudden change.

01-07-2012, 06:43 PM
NC I have sent a seperate request asking if this post can be closed. I was horrified someone had already seen it as I realise I'm not prepared to participate in the personal discussion that may surround it.

01-07-2012, 06:46 PM
closed per OPs request