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agapeflower
08-01-2007, 07:02 AM
Good morning everyone,
I was just wondering if I could get a word of encouragement this morning - the negative voices are starting pretty early today, and I already feel like crying. :trigger They always say the same thing - "You're too fat to have an eating disorder, no one believes you, you've gained so much weight and you don't deserve to eat anything." :trigger I also have a lunch meeting today and I'm pretty nervous about it (not the meeting, just the lunch!!!). So any support would really, really be appreciated. Thank you!!

Ribbles
08-01-2007, 07:55 AM
agapeflower,

I recently heard a great quote that made me feel a warm fuzzy:

"You must be at the end of your rope. I felt a tug."

So just know that there are people out there holding your rope for you and supporting you.

As far as your lunch, it's just one meal. Do the best you can. If it doesn't go as well as planned, then ok. We all have bad days. Just pick yourself up and get back on track.

:gimmehug good luck!

agapeflower
08-01-2007, 08:48 AM
Thank you so much!! Just what I needed to hear :happy I hope your day goes well too!

FoxInSox
08-01-2007, 09:09 AM
agapeflower,

you have innate value and worth simply because you are alive.

that's my favorite affirmation. i thought i'd share it with you.

good luck today!

SadSocialite
08-01-2007, 10:23 AM
I heart you! You'll be fine!

multiplex
08-01-2007, 10:38 AM
Good luck with the lunch. Tell those voices to shut up. You are not too fat to eat, I don't care how much or how little you weigh. Everyone deserves to eat. You are a person with worth. Tell yourself that and fight those voices.

agapeflower
08-01-2007, 10:55 AM
Thanks everyone...the day is going pretty well so far, and I know it's because of your support!! :cutie

FoxInSox
08-01-2007, 12:05 PM
I think part of it going well has to be about YOU.

YOU noticed that you were struggling. YOU owned the struggle, and then YOU reached out. YOU listened to the encouragement and then YOU took it to heart.

I think, agapeflowers, that you kick ED ass today!!! :bounce

Keep it up!